有奶便是娘
yǒunǎibiànshìniáng
ㄧㄡˇ ㄋㄞˇ ㄅㄧㄢˋ ㄕˋ ㄋㄧㄤˊ
- 1lit. whoever provides milk is your mother (idiom)
- 2fig. to follow whoever is feeding you
- 3to put one's loyalties where one's interests lie
Example
有奶便是娘
yǒunǎibiànshìniáng
If it gives milk, then it's your mother.