吃人家的嘴軟,拿人家的手短
chīrénjiādezuǐruǎn,nárénjiādeshǒuduǎn
ㄔ ㄖㄣˊ ㄐㄧㄚ ˙ㄉㄜ ㄗㄨㄟˇ ㄖㄨㄢˇ , ㄋㄚˊ ㄖㄣˊ ㄐㄧㄚ ˙ㄉㄜ ㄕㄡˇ ㄉㄨㄢˇ
Simplified 吃人家的嘴软,拿人家的手短
- 1lit. the mouth that has been fed by others is soft, the hand that has received doesn't reach (idiom)
- 2fig. one is partial to those from whom presents have been accepted